{"id":201,"date":"2020-12-16T13:50:08","date_gmt":"2020-12-16T13:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/?p=201"},"modified":"2021-02-04T20:53:14","modified_gmt":"2021-02-04T20:53:14","slug":"loneliness-isolation-during-the-holidays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/2020\/12\/16\/loneliness-isolation-during-the-holidays\/","title":{"rendered":"Loneliness & Isolation During the Holidays"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Feelings of loneliness and the experience of isolation is not a new phenomenon during the holidays. Even in previous years when you may have been surrounded by people at a gathering, it is possible to feel alone in a crowd. Loneliness and isolation are as much an internal experience as an external one. But, the additional challenges of 2020 means we need to look even closer at how to remain healthy, connected, and proactive this year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are someone who has previously struggled with feelings of loneliness and isolation during the holidays, take a good look at the list below and make a plan for how you may be able to cope better this year. And, even if you\u2019ve never struggled with loneliness or isolation, make sure you take a look too. This year you may come up against challenges you haven\u2019t had before or, you may be the strength and support someone else needs. Regardless of your experience with isolation and loneliness during the holidays, this information may be useful to you in one way or another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tips for Coping with Isolation & Loneliness During the Holidays<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recognize the \u201cTemporary-ness\u201d:<\/strong> Especially in college, the winter break can seem to stretch on for what feels like an eternity. With colleges closing their campuses earlier and opening them later to manage the impact of the pandemic, it is going to be (and feel!) even longer. Rather than think of the time generally, take a real look at it literally. It may seem easier to manage when you know you will be back with your friends in 8-10 weeks rather than \u201cin February.\u201d Start a countdown like you did as a kid. Share one on an app with a friend. Enjoy the anticipation together. Here\u2019s a fun app to begin countdown celebrations.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get \u201cOut\u201d:<\/strong> Getting out of your typical surroundings, whether that be your home or even your town, can be very helpful. The benefits of being outside, even for a little bit, are well-documented.<\/a> So, if you can, make sure you get a few steps or breaths in outside each day. And, for a creative turn, it really can help to be outside of your own experience. Even if you cannot interact with other people, it can help to take a drive to see other people and sights you don\u2019t normally see. Just remembering how big humanity is and that everyone else is just trying to get along like you are can be comforting. You are not alone in your experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Be Creative:<\/strong> If you are not able to do and be with the people you normally would, get creative. In terms of categories, get creative individually and\/or \u201cwith\u201d others. There are so many virtual ways to get together. Even having one virtual get-together a week with a friend (or a group of friends) can be a big help to those feelings of being all alone. Be the one who reaches out and schedules with others! And, if you do have more time on your own, it could be time to start some new connections. Starting a new hobby can keep you busy, and finding other people online who do the same thing can create a whole new connection for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Set a Routine:<\/strong> In times without much structure (hello 2020) we can be very tempted to let go of our usual get ready, shower, get up, bedtime, workout, eating routines. However, while the occasional break from the ordinary is good, extended lack of routine can be very counter-productive to our overall well-being. Setting a schedule for yourself, setting alarms, even setting a weekly goal or two can be helpful for focus on what you can do rather than focusing on not being purposeful or with others. If you\u2019re just starting out, try starting your mornings well. That often leads to a better rest of the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tell Someone if You are Struggling:<\/strong> One of the greatest supports we have in 2020 is that technology has adapted to not having to do everything in person. We have phone calls, FaceTime, Zoom, texts, social media, virtual counseling<\/a>, and more that are outlets for us to reach out if we are having a hard time during the holidays. It may not be the same as being in a room with someone but that doesn\u2019t mean it isn\u2019t helpful. Even if you are only writing in a journal, getting the words out of yourself can help with feelings of isolation and loneliness. Remember, however you are feeling is okay, and you certainly aren\u2019t the only one feeling that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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So many unique factors of 2020 may impact how loneliness and isolation may affect us this winter. But, because the impact is so universal, it doesn\u2019t take long to find others who are probably going to say, \u201cI\u2019m struggling too.\u201d Let\u2019s reach out and all help support one another through this difficult season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

December 16, 2020. By Anne Rulo, Author, Speaker, Therapist. www.annerulo.com. FB\/IG\/Twitter @annemrulo<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Feelings of loneliness and the experience of isolation is not a new phenomenon during the holidays. Even in previous years when you may have been surrounded by people at a gathering, it is possible to feel alone in a crowd. Loneliness and isolation are as much an internal experience as an external one. But, the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":258,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[10,8,7],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=201"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":264,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201\/revisions\/264"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mopip.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}